No-expectation Giving, save yourself from hurt!


It hurts when one gives but does not get any credit or even acceptance from those people.

Such relationships may disturb and get affected in time, if similar attitude continues.






Why should one have no-expectations while giving?

The answer is simple -
To save your own self from hurt and have better, long-lasting relationships .


Would you like to know what's going wrong here, what are we missing out ?

Listen to this audio to understand how no-expectation giving, could become possible.
https://anchor.fm/swaadhin-wellness/episodes/Is-Giving-without-expectations-even-possible-e1l48l3



Here's a summary for you:

Giving and Receiving are not meant to be:
  • In same dimension
  • From same person
  • Later in time
But Rather
As per your need, reward shall be given to you, by the universe, and immediately so.


This understanding helps remain clear and sorted within yourself and so with other people, too.


What do you think? You may share in the comments, please.


Take Charge of your Mindset!
Swaadhin Org
Email: swaadhin.org@gmail.com

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