Blaming is no good, doesnt work

 

In today's environment , blaming others has become quite common in society. 

Did you ever experience positive results from blaming someone?








Getting good results after blaming is uncommon. Such conversation might bring a temporary result out of stress or fear but doesn't really help in the long run. 


Listen to this audio message in this regard....

https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/IOwZbFdwOub



Blame does not have the capability to nourish and bring positive change in transforming, the issues from root cause. 

It could also turn into bullying, if continued for long or become violent sometimes, in-case the other person feels hurt & responds aggressively. 

So why use such negative approach to correct another person, your child or yourself?


If you cherish a relationship, avoid blame, at all times, to prevent any deep scars from being created. It is better to find an alternative to communicate your requirement, listen to theirs and make things work, with agreement.


Take Charge of your Communication!

Swaadhin Wellbeing Org

(Email: swaadhin.org@gmail.com)



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