Allowance for Mistakes, Live & Let-Live

 There has to be a natural scope for new experiments & failures in life. We need to allow freedom to ourselves & others, to learn, try and grow as needed.


If you make a mistake - yes,  of course it's important to do your self-analysis to learn from it. 

However, along with this- one  mental/emotional exercise, which can be quite helpful, is explained below. This needs to be done within your own mind or in a personal diary.




 


Practice as follows:

Try to remember other people, who did make some mistake of similar sort against you in the past. Replay each incident, and check on the grudge or discomfort, still held within your own heart. 


Now, say this mentally - "I understand sometimes things go wrong. One may happen to develop some fear, desire or emotion etc. and act from that. This is human. I choose to forgive each one of you, completely, today."


 Repeat this at least 3 times, with sincerity, to manifest effectively.


In this moment when you are seeking forgiveness from the Almighty, first step is to clear all negativity held within your own heart against other people or situations. As you realize that those connections, probably made a mistake too, you shall be enabled to make allowance for that, in your past memories.

Practice this Forgive & Let-go cleansing with an understanding that Life cannot be lived perfectly, always, and being flexible as needed is simply humane. This shall help to accept your own mistake, then.


Keep life simple and work towards long lasting,  healthy relations with others always. Do not forget  to include your own self. Value & care for your relationship with self, this really matters!


Take Charge of your Wellbeing!

Swaadhin Org


Watch this short video on 'Learning from Mistakes'

 


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